Salvaging Your Relationship After an Affair-Dr. Sheri Meyers

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I am often asked, is there a way to salvage our relationship after an affair? Is there hope? My answer is, “YES, you can heal!” “YES, you can salvage your relationship!” “There is hope!” I’ve personally counseled hundreds of couples who have successfully survived and thrived after an affair.

In the beginning, after the discovery of an affair, often there is ambivalence, trepidation and fear. It is natural to not feel 100% confident or motivated to repair, heal or trust again. You’ve been hurt and you don’t want to be hurt again. What is vital in the formula of healing is that you BOTH make a conscious decision to begin.

Please note the word BOTH. One person cannot do this alone. Healing can only begin AFTER the cheating partner gives up the lover or whatever the ‘act’ has been whether it be on the Internet, cybersex, prostitutes, an emotional affair, or one that turned physical. This is a non-negotiable.

Although you can’t go back and undo the past events, you can start from HERE to build a happier, more connected, responsive, honest and love-secure future together. THIS is a profound opportunity to transform the damaged dynamics that led to the affair and build a stronger, more secure and lovingly conscious relationship. The truth is that you have nothing to lose and EVERYTHING to gain.

 

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